Our adolescent are aping the society wrongly

Our adolescent are aping the society wrongly



A number of our adolescents suffer from emotional and behavioral problems which have roots in the family environment. The adolescent struggles to develop his individuality while still conforming to societal norms. Rapid urbanization and modernization have exposed them to changes in society. The resultant breakdown in family  structure, excessive or minimal control confuses the adolescent and makes him/her especially vulnerable to maladaptive patterns of thinking and behavior. It first started with the students who had hired a minibus  and were found inside it, drinking liquor and abusing drugs and doing all sorts of bad things. It happened again when students were found to have hired a house and were found indulging in compromising situations. This week students were sent home for half term, but they secretly met in one house for a birthday party which  turned into another sessions of binge drinking and orgy. It is a big challenge raising children in this digital era where bad habits and behaviour are quickly shared among the young innocent minds. What is wrong with students nowadays? What makes them plan such activities instead of studying,reading the bible or Koran,going to the library,planning educational trips or study sessions etc Why do they copy what adults do ? We are a reflection of what happens in our society. Has our behaviour been this bad that we can see it on the behaviour of our children? Peer pressure, parents,social media and friends are most common  reason for adolescent behaviour. Adolescents need to be treated as a distinct segment of our population and it is important to realize and address their health and lifestyle problems. Families can play an important role to help these adolescents live a healthier life. Social media should reduce their adult content,which is biggest influence on students behavior,so that the students cannot ape those behaviors. The only method of meeting their needs and at the same time aiming to reduce morbidity in this age group is to foster an atmosphere of patient centeredness in dealing with adolescent behavior. This is our society and if we lose our future society, we will lose our country's citizens. We have lost in the software and also should we lose in hardware (students) also? Let our children allow us to walk and chew gum at the same time. Nigerian proverb says that ears that do not listen to advice,accompany the head when it is chopped off. Let our students change their ways, so that we will be assured and guaranteed of a society of the future.
By
Veronica Onjoro
Mombasa

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